by Ann Landers   RELEASE: SATURDAY, MARCH 30, 2002 Dear Ann Landers: I would like to respond to "St. Louis Wife," whose 52-year-old husband lost his job. It is not uncommon for people who are out of work for a year or more to become depressed. May I offer some suggestions? The out-of-work executive may need to expand his job search to include smaller companies who would appreciate his experience. He also may benefit from speaking to a professional career counselor. Many churches and synagogues now offer this support for free or at minimum cost. The man should also offer his services on a consulting basis while he searches. It will be financially beneficial and psychologically uplifting, while helping him update his skills and make good contacts. He should network among his colleagues and let them know he is available as a consultant. Attitude is everything in a career search. If you believe no one will hire you, no one will. The man may need to videotape himself at a mock interview in order to see how he is selling himself. His appearance may be out-of-date. Locating employment after losing a job is very possible, even in today's economic climate. He should not give up hope. -- Emory W. Mulling, President, Association of Career Management Consulting Firms International, Washington, D.C.