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Forward
The Gathering
(A Dream at the
Overstreets)
THE
GATHERING, THOUGH LOOSE KNIT, nevertheless had great
integrity. Each individual was completely present as a
manifestation of the role he
and she had become accustomed to living
throughout the years.
Bennett was secretive and mysterious,
though anything but withdrawn.
Metaphorically
speaking, he held his cards closely, playing them knowingly and
carefully. He was
deeply invested in his selective involvement with others, and
nurtured
a leadership
relationship with all he encountered. With those who obediently
followed; he liberally
engaged in secretive, meaningful conversation.
The old lady had but
one follower. She was elderly, and appeared to live exclusively
through the victories,
defeats, whims and consciousness of her leader. The
matron was grandly and
meticulously adorned, a string of pearls around her neck
with dark, subtle
colors of amber and black upon loosely gathered attire. Her
follower
in contrast, while
attractive, was plainly dressed in a light blue cotton dress.
She did not present
herself with the same assurance as did her idol. Though she was
the more visible and
active of the two, she shadowed the actions and feelings of her
"other."
Each one in the dream
was immersed in his or her own way of being. There was
neither room for
reflection nor equivocation.
I cannot now remember
how the dream began. I was aware of trying to become
involved with Bennett.
But his off-handed, seemingly indifferent way of relating to
me frightened me, or
at least made me uncomfortable and in turn caused me to
believe it would be
hard to gain his confidence; to share in a relationship with him.
It resulted in my
feeling discounted, as less desirable. Therefore I would be
unlikely
to be successful in
gaining his acceptance. Still I wanted to, but was momentarily
discouraged.
Meanwhile, I and
several others—of a more non-aligned or non-accepted
nature, were drinking
a dark beverage, perhaps something like red wine or a coffee
liqueur. The old
matron was sitting at table, perhaps for supper with her follower.
Then the follower
asked if I would like to join them (as for a drink).
While still attending
to Bennett and his group (its members were shrouded and
I could not see them
well), who were rather covertly engaged in conversation with
each other, I turned
in response to the invitation and said, "I would be
delighted."
Yet my heart was not
truly invested in the idea. My response rather was an act of
cordiality for having
received such an earnest invitation.
The matron without
turning her head smiled subtly, being pleased with my
response, while her
follower made a two thumbs up victory sign—(her hands
remaining on the
table)… and said "yes" as if she had scored a goal. In
truth, the
invitation was very
well done and deserving of acceptance. But their response to it
belied a great unmet
need which I had, at least temporarily, remedied. Still, I
continued
to attend to Bennett
and his followers and the rest of the milieu, while
intending in a moment
or two to join them.
The dream reminds me
of Sartre’s "No Exit," where all parties are
inexorably
embedded in the
banality of stylized socialization and the pandering for
preference.
They reflect a poorly
concealed rigidity and a plethora of needs beneath endless
portrayal that becomes
the nexus of identity.
Upon waking I yearned
for the time when people were so obvious and well
defined. It was
possible to view them as a reality bourne out of a basic truth.
The
truth of who they had
become. They were not the result of a camera angle—or spin
doctoring. I
immediately committed myself to the bringing upon us of a better
day
wherein an integrity
of one’s being exists, a healthy manifestation, enriching those
around. I also rather
grandly committed myself to the elimination of contemporary
vacuousness.
Now the mask of
identity is no longer worn. Rather it is a shifting blankness
molded by compliance,
and the avoidance of detection of one’s nature and feelings.
The contrived manner
of expression of those in the dream were masks that concealed
and at the same time
displayed their identities. They could not be changed
or removed.
No matter. There is no
going back through the development of some kind of
mask replacement
therapy. Rather the masked ones and the faces of putty alike
might commit ourselves
to a coming home into beingness. That requires a genuine
awareness of internal
beingness, including our fundamentally healthy goodness, as
well as a comfortable
and healthy co-relational involvement in life. It includes all
aspects of personal
beingness and a life of growth to do this. It means being
spiritually
alive.
Those of us who are
spending our lives as medical and counseling practitioners
have the good fortune
of being in a position to facilitate physical and spiritual
growth and health in
others as well as in our selves. Yet the doing of these things
requires a deepening
of our understanding as to how we might proceed.
Treating Spiritual
Disorders with the
subtitle Promoting Spiritual Recovery might
have been entitled
"The Diagnosis and Treatment of Spiritual Disorders."
That is
what the book
addresses. But we are in a time of exploration and searching. It
is too
soon for that
certainty implied in the alternative title. But the time is right
for what
we are doing. As a
colleague suggested, "Spirituality is the next great frontier
in
medicine."
— Gregory Sims
1
Overview
IT
APPEARS THAT AS WE LOOK AT LIFE, we are often at a loss in
understanding what our
needs are, and what pathways we should take in
order to grow. This is
particularly true in the areas of medical and psychological
treatment. There are any
number of choices: choice points and
opportunities to make
decisions that are perhaps in our best interest. Yet these decisions
sometimes come with a
price. If one is to elect surgery there are the costs—
physical, mental,
emotional, financial. What does one do when depressing events
become depression?
In spite of costs and
confusion we seek assistance with our problems because
they are so difficult we
cannot manage them on our own. That of course is not
always the case.
Individuals with vocational and educational problems often address
them through personal,
social and community efforts. Exercising, vitamins, careful
watching of one’s
eating, consciously making an effort to get enough sleep, and
joining with others who
are attempting to accomplish goals for healthy living all
give us opportunities to
intervene in our own lives. But at times, whether or not we
go to the physician or
counselor, it feels better to go to someone who might help
us with these problems.
Recently, I had an
opportunity to observe people in the waiting room of an outpatient
clinic. My son-in-law
was then a resident in family practice medicine. I sat
there for approximately
two hours. During that time I had an opportunity to watch
several patients come
and go. There seemed to be an identifiable pattern, and I realized
I had been seeing this
for decades. People came in, with or without children,
sometimes quite
scattered and unfocused. As they sat down, if they had children,
there was an effort to
engage the child in some storybook, coloring or interesting
activity. The waiting
room was, as usual, quiet. The adult then picked up a magazine
and rather mindlessly
leafed through it or became engaged in some random
article. These people
then became part of an invisible group. By that I mean all of
the people were
obviously in sight of the others, but were only indirectly related
to
each other, and as a
group were waiting for their turn for treatment. Each one had
a story, problems and
needs. When the child of the adult was called, both went into
the examination room.
There was a conference, followed by an examination, perhaps
blood tests, and some
kind of determination. Identifying data had already been
presented to the
receptionist who managed the business part of the contractual
arrangement. Following
the medical intervention, people returned to the waiting
room, perhaps picking up
an item or two, and left.
It appeared to me
something in addition to medical assistance was occurring.
First there was a real
investment that was obvious. And within the context of that
investment was some
degree of trust, belief and acceptance. Following the interventions
it appeared that
individuals left in a much calmer, more pleasant, more satisfied
state than what they
brought with them when they came in. That may not
have been true for
patients receiving bad news, and the temporary resolution may
have dissipated very
quickly as the individual walked across the street, a car honked,
or some distraction
occurred, causing some reaction or problem.
That calmness,
peacefulness, that the professional environment encourages,
runs through the waiting
room into the hospital, skilled nursing facilities, and the
offices of
psychologists, counselors and professionals of all kinds. For
individuals
who have difficulty
focusing, understanding their problems, identifying their problems,
knowing what kind of
sequence of events must occur, who may even need help
in maintaining an
effective continuity in their lives, this visit is rewarding. It is
a little
island. It’s a place
where the external environment takes into account the needs
of the individual by
being set up in such a way so as to promise, not only that there
will be a supportive,
calm acceptance, but that each person in this temporary community
will have his or her
turn to be individually identified. As a person experiences
the doctor or therapist
identifying problems, it enhances one’s own sense of
being able to identify
oneself; in part, through the identification, treatment and
involvement in one’s
own problems and needs.
There is a recognition
of characteristics, and the recognition verifies the individual’s
identity. This is why a
diagnosis is so important to some. If I am flawed and
I clearly suspect that
there is something wrong with me, I go to the doctor. I might
be hoping that there is
something wrong with me that the doctor can identify,
because then the two of
us will have this information. As partners in the doctor-
patient relationship we
can work together to make me better. It may be that the
things the doctor
identifies as being wrong aren’t at all or are very indirectly
related
to what is more deeply
going on within my psychological or even my physical
environment—the
possibility that I am using certain physical experiences for
psychological
purposes. That may take
some time to surface, only after a number of
contacts.
I thought as I watched
these individuals come and go; I thought how nice it
would be if they had the
opportunity upon leaving to go into another room where
there could possibly be
refreshments, and an educational program geared to the
general illnesses and
problems people have. Perhaps they could sign up for a broader
community based support
system directly on the heels of the medical intervention.
How nice it would be for
them to take the good feelings, the calm, integrated
professional and skilled
way that the medical program offers, and find the means
through which to begin
to introduce those ways into their own lives.
On discussing this with
my son in law, I found that he too was aware of the fact
that much of medicine is
indirectly a system of psychotherapeutic support. This, of
course, is not new
information. Most physicians realize that a large part of what
they do offers at least
temporary support for individuals who are not able to find
their way in life very
well. In fact, one of the problems physicians face is that some
portion of their
practice is comprised of individuals who have become addicted to
getting this kind of
"fix." They begin to invent things that are wrong. They
begin
to describe symptoms
that are almost impossible to get at—medically. Many
patients, clients, do
the same with psychologists and counselors. What these people
are saying is that there
is a profound disorder. They are aware of it, they feel it, they
know it, they live with
it, but many of them have not recognized it and confronted
it directly. Rather,
there is the tacit assumption that nothing can be done. There is
something that is so
deep and so penetratingly wrong that the next best thing is
simply to deal with a
whole host of rather superficial symptoms and problems in
order to try to get
themselves through this chaotic and very long life that offers not
a great deal of ongoing
satisfaction. Rather than being able to get to the root of the
problem, such
individuals are often superficially satisfied from time to time
throughout the day with
habits, practices, things that appeal to them, a morsel of
food, television
program, conversation, or a doctor’s visit. The hope is to get as
close to breaking even
as possible. Then there is the large group of people who take
various psychologically
altering substances, legal and illegal, in order to maintain.
As practitioners we, to
a certain extent, do provide a world view for our patients
and clients. Physicians
have been doing this for thousands of years. Psychologists
and counselors who have
in the past been described by other titles, also do it. Our
task has been to provide
patients with a contrast between sick and well, needing
cures and being cured,
reacting to problems or intervening in them. We also help
people to get better or
we give them some hope of being able to make it from visit
to visit. Some part of
what we offer patients and clients is a perspective from which
and through which, not
only to view their problems, but to view life. Because as we
assist people in seeing
the patterns of healthy behavior, or self-destructive behavior,
or the growth of
unwanted tissue, or the biochemical imbalance that’s occurring in
the body we orient them
to a way of looking at unfamiliar territory.
Reneé Descartes
(1596-1650) believed scientific inquiry requires that we begin
with the investigation
and subsequent acceptance of the simplest and most evident
truths. To that end he
set out to establish rules and methodologies which would
allow us to deepen our
awareness of the design in the fabric of creation. In Part IV
of his "Discourse
on the Method of Rightly Conducting One’s Reason and Seeking
Truth In the
Sciences", he introduces a method which serves as the basis for
the null
hypothesis: this being
the presumption of no significant difference between effected
experimental data and
random occurrence. In Descartes’ application, he presumed
that all information he
had come to accept was of no value. He then went on
to test these hypotheses
against the fundamental truth which (as he concluded) reason
offered.
"I resolved to
assume that everything that ever entered my mind was no more true
than the illusions of my
dreams… [Then] whilst I thus wished to think all things
false, it was absolutely
essential that the "I" who thought this should be
somewhat,
and remarking that this
truth "I think, therefore I am" was so certain and so
assured that all the
most extravagant suppositions brought forward by the skeptics
were incapable of
shaking it, I came to the conclusion that I should receive it
without
scruple as the first
principle of a philosophy for which I was seeking." (pg. 127-
128)
Yet, as with all great
thinking, it is possible to refine matters further, thus eliminating
problems that may exist.
Descartes’ method of beginning with that which is
most simple ignores the
reality that complexity has been built into our thinking.
And, as children we came
to admire those studies that were complex enough to
challenge us. Thus our
first task in applying this method must be to forsake our reverence
for complexity and
accept only those complexities that are necessary.
Secondly, we must look
more closely at the phrase "I think, therefore I am" and
realize that the
thinking of which Descartes wrote was very close to what is
expressed through the
word "I." The fact that he included the word
"therefore"
does not necessarily
imply sequence (as the result of). Rather, "I" is (in and
through)
thinking.
In order for this
proposition to help us, we must refine it to a simpler truth. We
may do that first by
eliminating our dependency upon the concept of identity and
conceptually replace the
word "I" with "human beingness." In this manner
the misunderstanding
that thought is central
to who we are can be avoided. We can then
offer thinking its
proper place in our evolving. Human beingness inexorably
includes thinking.
More specifically,
undifferentiated thought is integrally entwined in our presencing.
It is the simplest of
phenomena yet it is not the most evident. Much of our
spiritual nature is
hidden as the result of complex living and thought which obscures
undifferentiated
awareness. And while this particular focus is upon thought,
undifferentiated
awareness also includes
physicality, relatedness, love, movement, stillness
and unity.
Foresaking identity
becomes more desireable when we begin to realize that
what was passed for
"identity" includes momentary reactivity, in conjunction
with
thought, emotion,
behavior and experience which through circumstantial conditioning
has become a vaguely
identified mish mash. For many it has been subject to
a wide range of
unforward events and problems of no one’s choosing. It is a
repository
of great unclarity, a
mound of preconceived notions in a sea of expectations;
some met many resulting
in disappointment. It is indeed fascinating to contemplate
the discovery and use of
effective and appealing methodologies that accomplish a
process of release,
restructuring and refinement. We propose that thought has a
significant
role in our evolution. According to Descartes thinking = human
beingness.
We hypothesize that
thinking = human
beingness. Rather, human beingness inexorably
includes thinking.
Differentiated and undifferentiated thought is integrally
entwined in our
presencing. Undifferentiated thought is by definition the least
complex
manifestation of
thought. It is not the most evident.
Much of our spiritual
nature is hidden as a result of complex living (including complex
reactions) and thought
that obscures undifferentiated awareness. And while
our point here focuses
upon thought, it is important to note that we also hypothesize
that undifferentiated
awareness is the most fundamental psychological result of
human metabolism.
In summary: we replace
"I think therefore I am" with "undifferentiated
awareness
is the most fundamental
psychological product of human metabolism."
It is hypothesized that
undifferentiated awareness is the common thread that unites
all life forms.
From this proposition it
is evident that we must involve ourselves in considerable
preparation to be able
to live the simplest of lives and to draw that simplicity
into complex situations.
we must learn how to open ourselves to undifferentiated
thought within the
context of presencing. For example, there are many reasons why
life does not seem to
offer enough. One may be because we didn’t get "enough"
during some significant
developmental period. But it is more complicated than that.
To wit: when basic needs
are not met, there is an increased intensity of need, and
when satisfaction—gratification
does occur, the intensity of the satisfaction/gratification
is greater. This sets up
a need for this level of intensity for fulfillment to
occur. Thus when our
needs are met promptly, after this beginning—they’re never
enough until we
experience the level of intensity that we are seeking. This requires
deprivation which we do
not want, imbalance, and even when that is achieved it
precludes true
fulfillment.
From this
destabilization, individuals may have the feeling of something being
wrong and translate that
into feeling unsatisfied, or being unequal in the imagined
or actual presence of
another (others). This is the result of maintaining identity
through a process of
defensively based deflection. The destabilization of homeostatic
health is translated
into a defensively based identity. Fundamentally this is based
upon reacting in infancy
and early childhood to the physical presence of another.
These are others who are
not those particular ones with whom attachments have
been established,
through which a complete sense of comfortable beingness in a
dependent fashion
exists.
Here it is possible to
see then that basic physiological, psychological and social
problems beset us.
Bringing them to our attention without an ability to manage the
information and find
solutions does little more than to pronounce a judgment that
suggests we are
perpetually unhealthy. It is important that we find ways to use this
information so that
through it there can be solutions and growth. Let us look at the
proposition based upon
our modification of Descartes’ view, that undifferentiated
thought within the
context of presencing is a crucial resource in establishing a
healthy way of living.
Let us also examine why to date thought has not provided the
avenue of growth we
might have expected.
The way in which events
happen causes us to identify tangible and complex
mechanical and
functional properties of nature. In and through our inventions we
create a very (and
unnecessarily) complex environment. This requires specific complex
responses. For the
complexities to be a healthy product of integrative beingness
they must be founded
upon, and as the result of a robust ongoing presencing
deriving from the
metabolic simplicity of fundamental life experience. One may
quibble with the
description of metabolism as simple, since we find it highly complex
and our most complex
sciences cannot create it. The simplicity is in and
through its fundamental
availability. In the same manner that water is simple, so too
is the truth of healthy
metabolic experience. The closer undifferentiated thought
can come to being in
continuous process with healthy metabolism, the more our
thinking will reflect
the true physical nature of our being. We will then have a much
more reasonable
foundation through which not only to view but understand experience
in its simplicity. This
will provide us a much more solid foundation upon
which to build the more
complex discoveries, inventions and ways of living that
inexorably present
themselves to us.
Recently I was asked by
an individual who is nearing the end of his life to do an
independent assessment
as to whether or not he is capable of managing things. He
wanted me to do this in
part so that he would have evidence that suggested he was
capable, of managing his
life. He wanted me to confirm which path to take. To some
extent my approach was
to help him organize his choices, seeing his abilities and
options. This process is
not uncommon, and to some extent determines what people
will do. It also at
times becomes a significant factor in the decisions of social
workers and the courts.
Physicians who advise an
individual as to whether or not they should have a radical
prostatectomy may make
suggestions or very strongly indicate an opinion as to
what should be done. No
matter what approach is taken, the patient’s life is changed
as the result of the
information that has come from the PSA and how the physician
interprets it. Whether
the individual engages in a conservative program of watchful
waiting or a more
radical procedure, that person is now experiencing new
dimensions in life.
These changes can be very positive. Rather than having vague
fears about what might
be going wrong, much of the patient’s concern, rightly or
wrongly, will be focused
on information related to this problem. He may choose to
engage in many new
activities, i.e. support groups, literature exploration, etcetera.
These will also have an
influence upon his life and the lives of his family members.
There are countless
examples where the lives of individuals are very profoundly
shaped by practitioners
providing these services. In the first example, the world
view of the individual
will be effected by a general assessment and discussion of
cognitive abilities,
affective stability, interactive potential (including language
usage), depth of
relational contact, identification of commonly known information,
and the rest of what is
included in a mental status examination. These are psychological
and social structures by
which we live, which most people take for granted
until something starts
to go wrong. In the second instance, the individual is faced
with information about
organic changes. What should he do given the fact that
there is indirect
evidence that a carcinoma may be present in his prostate? The
biopsy confirms this and
then the second question is the same as the first. What
should he do? Both
individuals have been taken into a world with which they may
be but vaguely familiar.
To that extent there is an opportunity to learn, grow, develop,
and to organize life in
a more conscious fashion.
The structures,
approaches, and the material for discussion—which also are
much of what comes from
the reality of the individual’s life, can be identified as
being directly or
indirectly organic. Secondly, much of the information is shaped
around the current level
of our scientific understanding and clinical practice. While
we certainly interweave
human elements of caring, social practices, concerns, and
individual attention,
within the context of our medical and psychological findings,
the bottom line, as
profit is for business, within the health care professions is
science.
There is no doubt that
many individuals take scientific information and add
humanistic, altruistic,
religious and spiritual considerations to it. These additional
qualities are not always
main factors in our treatment schema. This is the realm of
personal, family and
community involvement rather than being under the aegis of
the medical and
psychological practitioner. To be sure, we offer people ways of
looking at life and
relating to others that include both life appreciation and the
realities
of their circumstances
(as we have defined them). And our suggestions may
include looking at
spiritual issues. But that is not yet our province.
It appears that as we
look at life, there are also those bright opportunities for
happiness and growth.
Most of us can remember wonderful times in our youth
when we reflect upon
what has happened to us. If we are fortunate those wonderful
times continue
throughout early adulthood into middle age and into our senior
years. A goodly number
of people live an enriching, positive, satisfying life and die
in a state of
understanding and acceptance. While this is true for many, it does
not
describe the lives of
the majority of Americans. Because, even though we seem to
have a robust economy at
the present time, and we are not caught up in terrible
wars, as has been the
case for previous generations, for many there is a malaise, a
dispirited wandering,
searching, wanting, looking for more, needing more, yet
resisting change. Many
but not most people who live this life of "not enoughness"
seek counseling,
psychotherapy, medical assistance—sometimes they seek a diagnosis,
looking for something
that they can point to as being wrong. And many times
we can indeed
accommodate them. But we rarely include in our accommodations
discussions or
descriptions of spiritual disorders, spiritually related problems
and a
need for
spiritual beingness that is hypothesized to exist in all of us. The
Diagnostic
and Statistical Manual
of the American Psychiatric Association contains
four lines (out
of some eight hundred
pages) devoted to spiritual problems. And these lines deal
with individuals
struggling to make religious or spiritual choices or those who are
facing a religious or
spiritual problem.
DSM IV: V 62.89
Religious or Spiritual Problem: "This
category can be used
when the focus of
clinical attention is a religious or spiritual problem. Examples
include distressing
experiences that involve loss or questioning of faith, problems
associated with
conversion to a new faith, or questioning of spiritual values that
may not necessarily be
related to an organized church or institution."
The problem with this
cursory diagnostic reference, in addition to it being a
minimalist approach, is
that the entire area of spiritual disorders and their treatment
remains undiscovered by
the general populace and unexplored by the treatment
communities. It offers
nothing in the way of specifics for diagnostic explication
as being both medical
and psychological in nature.
A VIGNETTE
This is a case history
composite. It is no single individual, but is comprised of a
number of threads of
clinical material that are associated with actual cases. Eric is a
fifty-eight year old
Caucasian male who has been married since age twenty-three to
his wife Emily, who is
fifty-six. He has worked as a business manager for a relatively
small corporate firm
that has participated in the distribution and sale of goods.
He has had but one
marriage and has been relatively successful in his business,
working himself up to a
position of on-site management. Eric had three years of
college, and his wife
completed two. He is the father of two children, John and
Paula. Paula also did
not graduate from college. They have been relatively successful
in their economic and
social lives. John, the oldest child, age thirty-two, is
unmarried. Paula, age
twenty-nine, is married and has two children. The family has
not moved, has remained
in the community and become stable, well-known and
respected. The children
did well in school and participated in extra-curricular activ-
ities. There have been
no significant problems in their lives. Eric and Emily did suffer
a personal tragedy in
that their last child was stillborn.
Through most of their
married life, Emily has not been a full-time employee.
She was content to be a
homemaker, mother and wife. When times were a bit difficult,
she worked full time for
several years. There have been no major marital conflicts
in their lives.
Additionally, the children seem to have grown up well. Their son
appears to be searching
to find a more solid foundation, but not desperately. The
children have both
attended some college. Their son graduated with a Bachelor’s
level degree in
Communications.
The family has been
active in the local Lutheran church, the only one in the
community of
approximately 15,000. All of the family have made the church a
central
part of their lives.
There has not been an inordinately strong interest in doctrine
or teaching, although
the question of liturgy and ritual (i.e. how much, what
kind), has come to the
surface on two or three occasions. At one point Eric flirted
with the idea of going
to school and entering the ministry. It would have required
a significant life
change for him and the family and he contented himself with
participating
in lay activities.
Several years ago he had
a number of intense sessions with his pastor which
seemed to be
opportunities to express his disapproval of the direction the
minister
was taking the parish,
discussions about the building fund, Christian education. As
time went on, it became
more and more clear that Eric was feeling a sense of discontent
and unfulfillment
through his religious involvement. He began to question
his involvement in
practices associated with formal religion. His attendance became
more sporadic, as his
children left and established their own lives. His wife continued
to attend church without
him, expressing at times disappointment that he chose
to watch television and
putter around the house.
For the last two years
he had entertained the possibility of retiring. Although it
would have been best for
the family if he had continued to work for approximately
five more years, when
his retirement plan would mature, it was possible for him and
his wife to live on a
limited income. He had been having difficulty motivating himself
and appeared to be in
the early stages of a mid-life crisis. He had become less
productive at work and
his employer generously offered him an early retirement
package, which he
accepted.
Eric now spends longer
periods of time by himself. He is less talkative with his
wife, and participates
less in family gatherings as well. He appears to have less interest
in working around the
house and taking care of the yard. Some aspects of his
hygiene have begun to
suffer, although he still showers several times weekly. He
isn’t as interested in
his clothing, the style of his clothing, and is less careful about
putting things away. His
wife noted that he has much less interest in intimacy: warm
hugging and closeness as
well as sexual intercourse.
At Emily’s behest he
has begun taking a regime of vitamins. He does not feel
that he needs medical
attention and perhaps secretly fears that something serious
might be wrong. Upon
urging, he submitted to a thorough physical examination
one year ago and the
results were negative. His wife brought his change in affect
and mood to the family
doctor, who suggested counseling and a program of medication
for depression. Eric was
particularly bothered by the suggestion that he
might benefit from the
use of psychotropic medication. He insisted there was nothing
wrong with him, that the
doctor had had an opportunity to look him over, and
that he was "just
fine."
Over the past year, his
condition has worsened. He rarely goes to church, except
for baptisms, marriages
and special events. He spends an increasing amount of his
time at home, doing some
reading, watching of television, but appears to be
increasingly lost in his
inner world. Now at home and an increased amount of time
on his hands, he has
become picky and bothersome in the household. As a result,
his wife has taken a
full time job, partly to avoid having to deal with him.
Since Eric’s condition
has affected his lifestyle and employment, as well as his
interpersonal
relationships, he can be seen as having either a dysthemic disorder,
300. 4, a major
depressive disorder, 296.31, or 311 Depressive Disorder NOS. One
might also diagnose him
as having an adjustment disorder, 309. 0, with depressed
mood—it should be
specified that with passage of time it has become chronic.
There are no evident
features of personality disorders. With regard to the V codes
(additional conditions
that may be a focus of clinical attention that are not considered
to be diagnosable
psychological disorders), there has appeared to be some age
related cognitive
decline that is within normal limits. This may have affected him
and caused him to feel
less capable and confident. He has not reported having such
concerns. He appears to
have had religious and spiritual problems, V62. 89, in that
he has had a questioning
of spiritual values related to his involvement in his
church—which has been
a major part of his life.
It’s interesting to
note here that the V codes, which "are not considered to be
diagnosable
psychological disorders," are not codes for which therapists
can normally
charge. Thus if we are
treating problems of a "spiritual" nature, we can do so
within the accepted
practices and procedures of therapists and physicians. In order
to bill for our services
there needs to be a problem that can be described in other
ways. The truth of the
matter is that anybody who is having marital problems, spiritual
problems, or problems
around any of the V codes, may have personal reactions
that qualify that
individual for "treatment." To me this seems quite
backward.
Spiritually related
issues—including definitions, problem areas and treatment,
should be addressed
through the use of a model (models) that is (are) consonant
with the behavioral and
medical sciences.
We haven’t made much
of an effort to separate religion and spirituality in our
own searchings. And this
has been a problem. Medicine, psychology, and the other
allied health
professions have long struggled with the issue of spirituality.
There was
a time when, especially
within the field of medicine, religiosity so dominated science
and medicine that it was
very important to try to escape from that kind of
mental oppression which
made it so difficult to make health-related decisions on
behalf of the human
population. Now we have quite the opposite situation.
Medicine, in a manner of
speaking, has its own say about what the clinical practice
is and how the science
should proceed. (Parenthetically, the health professions now
appear to be under
attack from the business community.) Even though there is tacit
agreement there is an
art to medicine, that what we’re really looking at are medical
arts and sciences, for
the most part the focus is on science. As the physician practices
and matures over the
years, that practitioner may become more attuned to the
art of medicine. And
within the field of medical science there is little room for
spirituality.
Physicians refer
patients to the chaplain, to the religious practitioner of
their faith, or
recommend that they find some support along those lines.
Occasionally a physician
who has a religious or spiritual practice of his or her own
will draw from that
practice, indirectly usually, so as to assist the patient with
difficult
times. Sometimes people
struggling with such difficulties are referred to a psychiatrist,
psychologist, or other
therapist for treatment of adjustment reactions,
depression, or anxiety.
While this practice has some merit, it does not seem to
encompass all of the
possible opportunities for treatment available in the healing
professions.
Most of us who are
actively involved in the treatment of medical, psychological
and social problems find
ourselves addressing an increasingly complex array of concerns.
Broadly stated, we are
either dealing with physical, psychological, community
and environmental
difficulties, or are attempting to facilitate healthy practices in
these areas. We are
dedicated to improving the human condition, human beingness.
We work in our own areas
of specialty, whether that be upon the nephron unit of
the kidney, ossicles in
the ear, or the effects of depression and abandonment upon
personal well being.
We function within the
context of specific sources of information which allow
us to develop expertise
and competence. Even though there are a plethora of cases
wherein we have limited
treatment success, the fact that we have a deeply ingrained
discipline from which to
proceed allows us to search for healing and health strategies
beyond our present
approaches. Sometimes we reach back into the past and
rediscover approaches
forgotten or put aside for the promises of new ones, which
over time show
themselves not to be the panacea we had hoped for. The newest
approaches of promise
need to have their chance to serve us and those whom we
serve. It is
particularly important, as we address new areas to be included
within the
broad parameters of the
healing arts and sciences, that we work to establish some
goals. One goal is to
learn how to address treatment, a fuller, more robust treatment
of the human condition.
This is true for individuals, families and communities.
Broadening the
parameters of treatment requires that we answer three basic
questions. First, is
there a need not being met through our current definitions,
practices and resources?
Secondly, is there a way to investigate approaches and
strategies to improve
matters? Finally, what answers will be acceptable so as to allow
us to proceed? That
process can be very formal, requiring years of research, the
expenditure of great
amounts of money, the presentation of convincing quantifiable
data. Or it could be
relatively simple, as with the introduction of a counseling
technique
or approach that appears
to have merit. When it comes to the investigation
of human spirituality
within medical and psychological contexts, the latter approach
seems to be the means of
adoption with alarming rapidity. It is undeniable that we
are undergoing something
of a spiritual renaissance in all areas of public life. This
includes medicine,
psychology, and related counseling and treatment programs. But
before hailing this as a
welcome and much needed enhancement of our professions
and service delivery
(which it potentially is) it is important to respond to the three
questions just
presented.
Is there a need for
physicians, psychologists, counselors, clinical social workers,
nurses, speech and
physical therapists, and others in the health professions to
address and treat
spiritual needs and disorders?
One might be tempted to
react to the question with a resounding yes! Others a
resounding no! More to
the point is the issue of creating a climate of well being for
individuals with medical
and psychological problems that may extend beyond clearing
an infection or reducing
a fear of heights. During the course of this book we
will outline the many
ways ontology—the study of beingness, can help to move us
forward. By being
pro-life—in the ontic sense—being attuned to the unfolding of
beingness, with
concomitant spirituality, and avoiding being trapped by the
stuckness
of rigid and
unreasonable adherence to current-day practices, we are
participating,
to a very small degree,
in the evolution of being: ontic evolution. Within the
individual, this may
help one to be more alive: the person may have more power,
greater vision, beyond
the confines of limitation, affliction and depression through
forbearance. Ontic
transformation is not linear, nor does it conform in a well known
manner to medical and
psychological practice. It is also possible that if we as
practitioners
are successful in
integrating our methodology with spiritual exploration,
we can increase our
positive effect upon individuals and more broadly upon a seemingly
quite dysfunctional
society. In this author’s opinion, the answer to question
number one is a
qualified "yes." The need is there, but we must answer
questions
two and three
satisfactorily before that qualification can be removed. |